Intercourse is totally defined by male responses
Men are much more confident in sexual matters than women because sex revolves around male responses. A man’s arousal motivates him to initiate sexual activity. His desire for penetration ensures that he wants to get sexual opportunities with a partner. His erection makes penetrative sex possible. But her orgasm kills her interest in participating in more activities.
A man generally experiences a reliable arousal cycle from erection to ejaculation. Not a woman. Female arousal (the kind that leads to orgasm) must be consciously generated. Likewise, your orgasm is not guaranteed at any time. Compared to men, women are much more restricted in how they get the kind of stimulation that leads to orgasm. Women reach orgasm by pressing their fingers down on the internal organ of the clitoris.
When we say that a couple slept together, we mean that they had sex. The natural assumption is that if a man and a woman share a bed, it is very likely that they have had sex. This is because men are easily turned on just by thinking of a (possibly half-naked) woman lying close to them. There is absolutely nothing a woman can do to make intercourse happen. Intercourse depends on the man having an erection.
The amount of stimulation (period of time) a person needs to reach orgasm depends on the person’s arousal mental state. A man cannot predict the moment of his orgasm more than a woman. Intercourse could never provide an orgasm for both partners because intercourse stimulation only lasts as long as the man has an erection. Even if a woman could respond to intercourse as men expect, she cannot have an orgasm at the same time as her lover. Women never get to a point where they can no longer have sex. A hole can always be penetrated, so it cannot be a sexual organ.
Before attempting orgasm, we must appreciate how to achieve arousal. For a man, this usually happens quite spontaneously. A man’s arousal makes the penis erect and makes penetration possible. The sexual organ of a man penetrates into an orifice of the body of another person and is stimulated by pushing it. Women are stimulated through intercourse in a very different way than men are stimulated. The person who is penetrated does not need to be aroused. Men assume that they will always be the penetrators and thus get the penis stimulation they need to reach orgasm. Most heterosexual men are strongly opposed to being the recipients of (anal) intercourse themselves.
The traditional justification for marriage was to allow a man and a woman to raise their children together. However, most men want to have sex much more often than is necessary for reproduction. Women are embarrassed for having no sexual will and thus make men look elsewhere. However, some men are much more demanding sexually than others. A woman’s sexual reluctance depends on the state of the relationship, her own ability to enjoy eroticism, and her partner’s sensitivity to recognize her less interest in sex.
The function of sexual activity with a lover is clearly penetration and reproduction. But only the male is able to penetrate. Although intercourse is justified as an act within marriage that leads to the family. Frequencies are not defined in terms of reproductive need. The frequency of sexual intercourse is determined by a man’s sex drive. Ejaculating into the vagina has a special emotional meaning for men. Intercourse completes a man’s cycle of arousal and gives him a sense of satisfaction and emotional well-being.
Intercourse provides the psychological arousal and physical stimulation that a man needs to achieve orgasm. The speed of orgasm for men depends on the familiarity of the situation and the behavior of their partner, including the excitements they can provide. Once aroused, any difficulty a man may have reaching orgasm is typically due to a lack of enthusiasm from a female lover or because he does not trust a stranger (for example, a prostitute).
We can differentiate between a person’s physical ability to engage in sexual activity and their emotional fitness. A man’s physical ability to have sex depends on his ability to get an erection. This occurs as a result of your mental response to erotic phenomena such as sexual opportunities or nudity from an attractive partner. Even if a man reaches orgasm through other means, such as oral sex or masturbation, an erection is still required. This is because mental arousal must always precede orgasm.
When a man wants to ingratiate himself with a woman, he buys her flowers. You can even buy her a sexy nightgown as a hint that you would like to see her wearing it. It is not shown in provocative underwear as an erotic arousal. If a woman buys sexy underwear for a man, it is an indication that he should improve his clothing style, not an indication that she wants to play with what is inside the underwear. However, a man assumes that a woman has sex because she is aroused to the point of orgasm. A woman has sex ideally because she loves a man but also because she knows what is expected of him.
As in the human animal, and even more often than in the male animal, petting among other mammals is primarily, though not exclusively, a male activity directed toward the female. As in the human species, it is the male who is most likely to become aroused psychologically and, generally, before making physical contact. (Alfred Kinsey 1953)