Law of Resonance: Can childhood trauma make it difficult for someone to express what they want?

Many years ago, in 2006, the law of attraction burst onto the scene thanks to a documentary. However, this law was not new, it had been around for over a hundred years by name, and the teachings themselves had been around for thousands of years.

So even though these teachings were presented as “the secret”, many people already knew about them. But, of course, there were also many people who didn’t know anything about these teachings and they had to present them in such a way that people would be attracted.

Change

One way of looking at this would be to say that there was a shift in the collective consciousness, which is why so many people were exposed to these teachings. To go back a step, this change also played into why the creator of this product had the idea in the first place.

It was then their creation/product but they were simply a conduit for something that a large part of humanity was asking for. The marketing behind it was important at the time, but it wasn’t what gave it its true power.

A mixed experience

As time has passed, more and more people have become aware of these teachings, and surely this will continue to happen. There are those who have been able to achieve great results, while there are others who have not.

If someone is in a position where they haven’t been able to get very far, they might wonder if they have any control over their life. For quite some time, you may have been thinking “positive” thoughts and spending a lot of time visualizing.

Another form of repression

As part of this process, they may have also had a tendency to deny how they really feel. However, if you believe that your thoughts create your feelings, there is no reason for you to be aware of it.

Instead, they may believe that by changing their thinking, their “negative” feelings will just go away. Actually, this is a half-truth; The other part of this is that your thoughts can simply trigger and be a result of how you feel.

Two parts

What this illustrates is that when it comes to the manifestation process, there is the mental part and the emotional part. If you have the right thoughts but his feelings are not aligned, or even if he forces himself to feel a certain way, he is sending a mixed message to the universe.

The result of this is that they either get nothing in return or get more of what they don’t want. With this in mind, it will be essential for one to have these two components in place and believe that he deserves to have whatever he wants.

The difference

It has been said that someone does not attract what they want, they attract what is. That is why trying to attract something is not the answer; they need to be what they want to experience in their physical reality.

The law of resonance, a law of quantum physics, says that human beings are made of vibrating energy. Therefore, for someone to experience something externally, he needs to vibrate internally at the same frequency.

A match

By vibrating at the correct frequency, they enter into sympathetic resonance with what they want. Once this happens, what they want they will want as much as they want it.

This can allow them to effortlessly draw what they want. At the same time, there may be certain actions that you need to take, but this will not be a time of struggle and tension.

creative energy

What this means, then, is that they, like everyone else, are traveling entertainers; you are constantly co-creating your reality. Your reality is the canvas, your thoughts, emotions, feelings, and beliefs are the paints, and your consciousness is the paintbrush.

Still, this does not mean that this is always a conscious process, as most of what you create will come from your unconscious mind. That’s why it can seem like someone or something ‘out there’ is in control of your life.

going forward

Taking all this into account, if someone has found it difficult to express what they want, it would be a good idea to find out how they really feel, what they believe in, if it makes sense to serve in their place. and whether they are taking inspired action. If they did this, they may soon find that a number of components are not in place.

They may find that they rarely feel good, have a set of limiting beliefs, don’t believe they deserve anything, and find it difficult to take action. In fact, they could be in very bad shape.

overwhelmed

The life they have is going to be anything but satisfying. Given what they’re going through, it’s not going to be a surprise that they have such a strong need to change their life.

The problem is that this is going to cause them to become very attached to what they want; something that will push away what it is they want. Ultimately, you will not be able to be what you want, resonate what you want, and this will prevent you from being able to experience it.

a deeper look

What this may show is that their early years were deeply traumatic, this being a time when they were abused and/or neglected on a regular basis. This would have meant that their developmental needs were rarely, if ever, met, which would have prevented them from growing and developing.

Consequently, this would have caused them to experience a lot of emotional pain, develop many limiting beliefs, prevented them from developing a felt sense of worth and worth, and prevented them from developing a felt sense of safety and security. As an adult, you will be in a traumatized state and feel emotionally empty.

Awareness

If you can relate to this and are ready to change your life, you may need to seek outside support. This is something that can be provided with the help of a therapist or healer.
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As you work through your inner wounds and become more whole and complete, your resonance will change. Doing this work will allow them to get in touch with the gold that is within them and their external reality will gradually reflect this.