shabby midwife
We are busy or we don’t have time, is what we often hear today. So I questioned time, why do you always run away from us? Is there any solution for you to walk with us? Then time replied, “I’m not running anywhere dear; I’m just doing my duty. I’m punctual. It’s just that people blame me for their inability. All I’m suggesting is that everything in the world has value, so do I.” Always trust me. I have healing power. People may not be able to cope with me, but keep trying. SMILE is the best syrup to catch me faster.”
‘This is what every woman is trying to do in her life.’ I myself thought.
Starting with your first tasks, it depends on your ability to handle them carefully. Nobody cares when your routine work is done systematically. But they react if she doesn’t.
Especially a married and working woman has a lot to do with this topic. Despite working outdoors, she manages her personal life beautifully. Waking up early in the morning, having a cup of aromatic coffee with paper and a long walk with scenic beauty for the eyes will refresh the mind of every individual. And I say it affirmatively, this is the dream of every woman. But in reality, the hot cup of coffee will be waiting for you. When she makes breakfast and lunch, it turns into cold coffee. She wakes the kids up and starts bathing them and suddenly she realizes that it slipped her memory that she drank cold coffee without brushing. She then, step by step, puts the uniform on the children, combs their hair, carefully untangling each lock and while she is placing braids on both sides, she accidentally places a comb in her bun. She began to feed them, forcing them to eat all the vegetables and forcing them to drink milk against her will. On the other hand, she tries to catch them and try to discipline them while she puts on their socks and shoes.
Finally, he looks at an old Empire wall clock that his friends gave him on his wedding day and chides them for presenting such a thing, that he isn’t expecting it. She issuing a loud cry, she calls her husband who is ready to take the children to the bus stop. She locks the door behind them and runs to the bathroom, brushing their teeth, bathing and dressing, brushing their hair cheek to cheek, applying cream and lip gloss, giving a light touch of eyeliner. She still couldn’t catch the comb, she hears a knock on the door. Adjusting the bracelets on one hand and the fast tracker watch on the other, she runs into the hallway and finds her cell phone on low battery while her son was playing Temple Run while having breakfast. She put it on charge and finally open the door.
Her better half, who understands her better than anyone, discovers a comb stuck in her bun and gives it to her. Thanking him profusely, she asks him to pack lunch bags for both of them. Meanwhile, she completes her makeover and places all the junk in her carry-on bag, except for the ID card and glasses. Before closing the door, she lights a lamp and prays for a few seconds. They both put on shoes, close the door and try to press the elevator button, which in turn does not respond correctly. In a hurry, you take the stairs and run to the car. As she sits in the front seat, a quick memory of the ID card and glasses flashes like lightning before her eyes. She looks at her husband with sympathy and without saying a word he runs, finds and brings her things. He is used to this.
The sudden start of the engine and a jerk brings her to the present and she begins to thank him, not only for today but also for the night before as he took care of the kids and other household chores while she was busy with some official calls and meetings.
They both smile and give each other a warm hug when they arrive at their destination and leave for the offices. she walks into the office, flashing a friendly smile at her colleagues as is her nature. Turning on the system, she is not surprised to see some heavily loaded cases in her hand. Sometimes pressure from senior officials causes him to skip lunch. Her headache takes over and she finds herself in a situation where she can’t spare five minutes of her own time for a cup of ginger tea or coffee.
She composes emails, and as she does so, her sharp eyes take in a notification received on her phone of a flared top for 50% off, but no time to search or reserve it. After completing the day’s work, she leaves the office with the feeling of carrying a ton of weight on her head accompanied by a growling stomach of her hunger.
Despite the delay, he enters the house with children picked up on the way from the nursery. She feels like relaxing on the sofa with pleasant music, but she is obliged to prepare dinner and fulfill another duty. Somehow she signs an exhausting day.
In addition to this, she or some member of her family may be subject to poor health, and yet must stick to a periodic schedule without leaving behind any provinces that fall under her area.
Attending functions, weddings, and birthday parties associated with the proper bestowal is another important part of life. She plans the perfect outfit for her and her family, buys a variety of gifts, comes up with ideas for organizing functions and festivities. Despite doing these things, friends and family tag her with the name “ABSENT MINDED” (lol), that’s fine with her. She shouldn’t give up on such silly things.
“LIVE WHAT YOU LEARN”. But at some point, “WE LEARN TO LIVE”. The setting plays a prominent role in this quote. When someone comments about a woman not being active, we mean, what the hell do you know about my busy-as-a-beaver life? But we don’t.
Hmm mm… to write an article I feel tired. Congratulations to all married and working women. At a certain stage, she’s a messy matron, but only she knows what she’s going through. She does many things, she is physically present at all family gatherings and outings, but not mentally all the time. In this scenario, she is a messy matron, she has no time to enjoy normal life as her thoughts revolve around planning the upcoming tasks.
A little reminder to all the ladies: “Wrong thinking is the only problem in life, correct knowledge is the ultimate solution to all problems.” I mentioned the word ‘Reminder’ instead of suggestion, because you know this statement well, but you may not be able to remember it every day due to hectic life. Be positive and stay motivated. LOVE YOU GUYS.