Three tips on how to excite a woman who has suffered the cut
Female circumcision is a practice that has been around in most African communities for a long time. There are some communities that still practice it today. The church and the media have done much to mystify this practice to the point that it is now considered retrograde and close to an act of human abuse. This has led to the coining of the name female genital mutilation, which creates the image of a savage act. What has not been discussed is the sexual satisfaction of the already circumcised woman who is in a sexual relationship such as marriage. These women have been taken as objects without feelings and normally men do not pay attention to their sexual satisfaction. This is due to the idea that they do not respond easily to any sexual stimulation due to the cut they underwent. Many believe that the cut that removed the clitoris made the woman unresponsive to sex. But this is purely wrong. The circumcised woman has feelings like all other women who have not gone through the incision because the largest sexual organ is in the mind and with proper tuning they can respond to sexual stimulation normally.
As a man dating or married to a circumcised woman, here’s what you need to do to make sex a pleasurable experience for both of you.
Even though she is cut off, the woman is still years to be desired. A simple caress in one of the erogenous zones accompanied by whispered compliments to the beauty or sensuality of the woman will already stimulate her. The man must have patience since the circumcised woman takes time to respond. Once the woman is relaxed and ready, she will begin to move closer or hug you tightly, sending the message that she is ready for it.
Show him love. Some circumcised women do not respond to sexual stimulation because they feel they are being treated like sexual objects. Frankly, love is the best sexual stimulant. When a woman feels loved, she performs well in bed. She is more excited and always looking forward to having sex with her man. The man should always find ways to make the woman feel loved, as this reaffirms her commitment to her and helps her relax while she makes love. He must always assure her that there is nothing wrong with her sexuality. A circumcised woman is always nervous about her performance. Therefore, some tend to avoid sex.
If the woman is worried or stressed, it is important for the man to comfort her. This will always relax her and sexually arouse her. A woman who is relaxed can easily become aroused. And since she has nothing to worry about, she can easily respond to her partner with her passion.
As you continually learn to arouse her, you will find that making love is pleasurable and the temptation to seek pleasure elsewhere will lessen.