Why does the narcissistic knight in shining armor turn out to be a loser in tinfoil?

It’s okay to have a healthy love relationship. Unfortunately, you may find that your partner is a narcissist. It is a shocking and sad fact. It is much better to know the truth than to be trapped in lies for the rest of your life.

Narcissists are those kinds of people who are incapable of loving other human beings. They sabotage and destroy their relationships. Keep your eyes peeled so it’s not too late to get out.

Relationship with a narcissist will change you. There is a proverb “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” In other words, this person affects your emotions, your behaviors and decisions. His mind games, manipulations and lies will brainwash you. You will agree to believe many toxic false beliefs about yourself and your life. The toxic memories about him will stay in your mind for a long time.

When you decide to leave, you may be completely broken in your new reality without him. You lost your identity and self-esteem when you were exploited by his domination and abuse.

The narcissist leads his victims to lose their authenticity. You will no longer know who you are because he was the only one who told you who you are for so long.

You may be feeling devastated because he broke your trust and emotionally betrayed you. In other words, he tricks your person into trusting him completely. He leads you to tell him everything about yourself. You believed in his fake personality and his fake intentions. That is why they manipulated you into doing, thinking and feeling what he wanted. He just used your weaknesses and your confidence against you.

The narcissist loves power and control. He knows what women love to have a romantic partner. That’s why they play a love scene. Often, he’ll be the first to use those three magic ‘I LOVE YOU’ words.

He will repeat this over and over again until he gets the same confession from you. It’s just a confirmation to them that you were sucked in. So you must worship and obey them. Otherwise, you are useless to him.

He will also go out of his way to isolate you. He hates exposure from his family and friend. That is the main reason why he will separate you from them. You will be alone with him. You won’t win by endless mind games and abuse of him.

His plan is to destroy your life. It will catch you mentally. It is a mind control game. He will offend you and degrade you. You think you are a worthless, weak, unloving and unimportant creature. No one but him can love you, so you must stay. If you rebel, he will use your dark secrets against you. If you want to run away, it will keep you financially dependent and mentally addicted to him.

When he decides that you are not a good supply for him, he will leave you as an empty wallet. He will find a new victim leaving you wondering what happened. Yeah, you’ve never been a loving human being to him. You were an object to him.

It is a very harrowing experience. There are many grievances, painful emotions, and traumatic memories. When you accept a challenge and acknowledge your pain, you have a chance to be reborn. It is a great opportunity to rebuild yourself, to be a strong, free and empowered individual.

If you are in a relationship with a narcissist now, you don’t have to live like this. You can get out before it goes any further.

Take a deep breath, acknowledge those red flags, and do something about it.